101 Things Every Girl/Young Woman of Color Should Know
If I ever doubted the relevance for my first book, today confirmed its necessity! On the very day that the book arrived to my office three middle school African American girls walked by my office window, which is nestled between rows of homes; kicking the daily papers off of the steps of neighbors. I walked out to confront them in the nicest way, asking them why they needed to do this and two continued walking while one girl responded. She indicated that they were (in her opinion) just sitting in the middle of the walk way and she apologized. Sounds like a happy ending right? Wrong. As they neared the corner two them yelled "BITCH!! WHORE!!" and it was the reality that urged me to write the book; "101 Things Every Girl/Young Woman of Color Should Know" (Duafe Press 2010). This is the lighter side of the choices and behaviors of OUR girls and it gives me pause; not because it occurs, but the lack of communal and parental responsibility that manifests itself in the blatant disregard some of OUR girls show women who look like them. I chose Duafe; a West African Adinkra word which translates to "the highest feminine qualities and cleanliness"as the name of my self-publishing imprint; in hopes of creating content, both written and performance , that speaks to promoting and modeling its meaning . If any of this strikes or moves you, purchase a copy of the book at www.saveourgirls.com .
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MESHELLE
The Indie-Mom of Comedy


Hey Meshelle!! Had to comment on this one. This is such a painful realization for our young girls. My daughter and I were driving in DC and saw an ice cream truck. I don't normally like to stop in an unfamiliar place, but it seemed to be an ok neighborhood. While waiting at the ice cream truck with my 6 year old, a little girl who couldn't have been too much older than my daughter, walks up to the person serving ice cream and says "What the F**k? Sh*t. Why it gotta take so long? My blood was boiling as my daughter turns around and looks at me in astonishment that this child was talking this way. I said to this child "Excuse you? Little girls should not talk that way...It's not very nice". She looked me dead in my face and said "I say what the F**k I want to say". My daughter was shocked. I was totally blown away.
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